cake nyc
nyc-focused sexuality site
[added on 08/12/02]

coalition for a positive sexuality
sex-positive education for teens and adults
[added on 04/11/03]

dyke tees
one of the cutest selection of queer-happy t-shirts i've ever seen. powered by cafepress, though, so the selection of sizes and such is somewhat limited. still ubercute!
[added on 04/11/03]

dykewrite
webring & community for bi-grrrls and lesbians
[added on 08/14/02]

early to bed
by far the cutest looking sex-shop site i've seen
[added on 10/14/02]

good vibrations
a sex-positive sex shop (good, even if they are featured in cosmo)
[added on 08/22/02]

hanne.net
well-rounded author, blogger, eroticist and neat person
[added on 12/06/02]

no faux(xx)
half-naked regular-sized punkass women. need i say more?
[added on 01/06/03]

not sorry
positive stories from women who've had abortions
[added on 06/22/03]

planned parenthood
valuable information on reproductive choice
[added on 08/22/02]

porn conspiracy
small network of gender and size inclusive alt-porn; basically net porn that doesn't suck
[added on 04/13/05]

pretty things press
independent erotica publisher that aims to make kink more accessible.
[added on 09/18/03]

queer filter
metafilter for queer news and politics.
[added on 06/10/03]

scarleteen
frank sex education for teens.
[added on 04/07/03]

strap-on
one of the most fabulously sex-positive sites around
[added on 08/14/02]

suicide girls
punk and goth and otherwise youth culture girls get naked for money. it's as homogenous as mainstream porn, but it's a homogeneity i like more.
[added on 04/11/03]

technodyke
adorable community site. who designed this place? it's so fucking cute. er, and also good content.
[added on 04/11/03]

voodoo dollhouse
a rare find - free porn featuring round women in a non-"look at the circus freaks" way - plus, all subculturey
[added on 04/13/05]